As a rule of thumb you shouldn’t really use game on girls less attractive than yourself or a five and lower. Sometimes acting completely normal with a “hey what’s up attitude is enough to get the job done. Another reason you should be careful about spitting your best game at average chicks especially in DC is because for the most part it will gas their heads up real quick. Women are filled with insecurities and you’d be amazed how simply spitting game or approaching them for a conversation will make them think they’re God’s gift to men. To help illustrate this check out this story about Lebron James and Lauren Perdue, (Here)

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In any event, there are way too many stories about people feeling stuck in a relationship and not knowing how to get out and once they do, how to manage their life. I have found a few things that have been quite helpful in getting through this a bit more easily. Sometimes relationships can become addictions and we think we are in love with someone, but its no longer really love, but an addiction to that relationship or person. It is almost as if we become chemically dependent on some type of perfume that they emit and we stay in something that we know in our hearts is unhealthy for us. Our minds and bodies are screaming at us to get out but like a loyal puppy we stay. I have heard married couples say that they stay in the marriage for the children, or finances, or it would be too “messy” and even though their lives have become intolerable, they stay.

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We all know the song “Breaking up is hard to do,” and have heard from friends or even ourselves how difficult leaving a relationship can be or having someone break up with you. It is so much easier said that done. If you are just joining us for the first time, reading the previous articles on Dysfunctional Dating would be helpful. This is a series of posts dealing with breaking the dysfunctional dating cycle and finding love. Click here to read the previous posts. I cannot tell you how many times I have been in a relationship and I knew that the relationship was going nowhere, but could not find my way out. It would become so challenging to untangle myself and then once I did, or the other person did the breaking up, there was still the mental chatter, the hurt, the sadness, the angst, the thinking that “there won’t be anyone else like that person” (and thank G-d for that), the hours of journaling and fantasizing how to get that person back in my life and the list goes on. I’ve been there, done that. Then there are people who can end a relationship and move right on to the next person in a matter of days. That has always baffled me.

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The simple act of asking her to grab some food at cafeteria had her bragging to the world Bron Bron invited her to dinner as if he was attempting to Pretty Woman this broad buy her an evening gown, fly her to Paris and take her to a five star restaurant. That’s how she builds up in her brain so imagine the power she has in turning that down AND THEN being able to tell the world she turned down Bron. Don’t look at that story as oversimplification of what I’m talking about. Please remember this when you ask that ok looking girl if you can buy her a drink. You guys walk around this city scratching your heads why average girls think they’re supermodels? It’s because guys like us give them one minute of our Alpha time and they trip off of that.

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When I started getting good at game one thing I realized was that you didn’t need to use it in every situation with a girl. There were times it was needed and there were times it would simply be overkill. The easiest way to know is the simple rule, the hotter the girl is the more game you’ll have to use. In that same category of girls that need to be gamed are the ones who are used to talking and being hit on by high status males. Athletes, business men high in their careers, etc etc. So these types of women are used to being around alpha guys and their vibe. Lastly you’ll use your game when you’ve on slightly older women 28 and up who’ve been around the block and know how men work and probably been pumped and dumped a few times.

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